This Morning Routine Checklist Could Change Your Life

We all have a morning routine checklist whether we are aware of it or not. Having a morning routine that you love and that improves your life is the single most valuable thing you can do.

33 minute read โ€ข Self-Improvement | Habits


The Beginning of the Morning Routine Checklist

I finalized my morning routine in 2022 – 2 years after first learning about the idea and starting to figure one out for myself.

Why, you might ask, did I start by telling you that? Because I remember the exact moment that it hit me – November 9, 2020, to be exact. How do I remember that? Because sometimes in life, every once in a while, new information comes into your life that suddenly changes everything. Even if it takes years to become apparent.

It was the moment that Tim Ferriss said, โ€œIf you win the morning, you win the dayโ€ that I had actually stopped mid-pushup and sat up. What the fuck did he just say? Rewind. Play. The idea of โ€œwinning the morningโ€ was some sort of alien fantasy that I had never heard of before. You could win the morning?

I was lucky to just wake up with enough time to hammer down a bowl of sugar, err- cereal, before heading off to work in a frenzy. And most mornings, I didnโ€™t even have enough time to eat. I was late for life.

My First Obsession: Why This Morning Routine Checklist Post Existsโ€ฆAnd Why Itโ€™s Insanely Intense

Ever since adulting took over, I havenโ€™t really had any obsessions. I had some things I enjoyed doing, but nothing that consumed me and my every waking thought. The reason this article exists, and is so insanely in-depth and detailed, is because it was my first adult obsession. Other than drinking buckets of all the leftover alcohol mixed together from a party I had just gotten drunk at for 20 Bucks, I canโ€™t remember another time when my brain was so consumed by something. At least this obsession didnโ€™t cause me to nearly vomit all over myself…multiple times.

Me when I was younger and didn't have a morning routine checklist
Me not having a morning routine obsession.

I obsessed over the perfect morning routine (in a good way, sort of) for years, and every book I read, podcast I listened to, or article I read gave me new insights or techniques to try on for size. Sadly, most of the sources just gave me general information about morning routines – as in, โ€œYou should meditate in the morning and exercise as well.โ€ โ€œCold exposure and breath work could be beneficial.โ€ โ€œSunlight helps set your circadian rhythm.โ€

Yea, but Why? When? How? In what order? For how long? What time is best? Where is best? Which exercises? Sunshine at what time? What time should I wake up? So. Many. Questions. I wanted answers. I wanted the exact template from these high performers. When I couldnโ€™t get it from them, I figured I would make my own morning routine checklist and share it. So thatโ€™s how we got here.

Now, my morning routine is the single most valuable thing in my life, day in and day out.

In fact, knowing what I know now, I was lucky to have found an obsession again. Obsession is necessary. At least for creating, doing, or being something meaningful. I wonโ€™t get into that here, but obsessions can take on many forms, some quiet, some loud, some simple, some complex, but ultimately obsessions excite and consume you driving you to be a better person. Hopefully.

For me, that was finding the perfect morning routine. A morning routine checklist.

Step 1: The Morning Starts At Night

โ€œSleep is the single most effective thing we can do to reset our brain and body health each day.โ€

Why We Sleep, Matthew Walker

It seems counterintuitive to start your morning routine checklist at night, but if you want to establish a morning routine, this is where you will need to start. In fact, this will likely be the most difficult step for many. It is so difficult because of one reason: discipline. Life happens. Things happen. You might want to stay up later to watch another episode, keep your late-night conversation going, or scroll on that device just a little longer.

But to “win the morning” you must first win the night.

Hereโ€™s the trick to allow for just enough freedom to get this done:

โ€œGo to sleep and wake up at the exact same time every dayโ€ is the common thought around creating a sleep routine, but I recently heard something from Brad Merrill that completely changed the game for me: Wake up at the same time every morning, but go to sleep when you are tired. This simple adjustment has had a profound effect. You no longer have to force yourself asleep. It eliminates sleep anxiety. It allows you to focus on when you get tired each night, and it varies. Your body is surprisingly good at dictating how much sleep you need. Knowing that you have to be up at 5am, you pay attention and tune into your body more. This doesnโ€™t mean you can binge just a few more episodes or scroll for a bit longer. You still need the discipline to go to sleep when you are tired, but this flexibility allows you just enough mental freedom.

Pro tip #1: Adults cycle through approximately 4-6 90 minute sleep cycles and the amount of time it takes you to fall asleep depends on a myriad of factors (like exercise, sunlights, stress), so plan accordingly to get the amount of sleep you require – most likely 7-9 hours of actual sleep.

Pro tip #2: Youโ€™ll need a nighttime routine, preferably 30 minutes – 1 hour before sleep.

Pro tip #3: Find a way to keep your mouth shut. You want to be breathing out of your nose. I used tape over my mouth for a very long time and now my mouth stays shut, and I believe nose breathing has contributed to my improved sleep and overall well-being. James Nestor explains this in his book Breath.

Pro tip #4: Your bed should only be used for sleep and sex. Maybe nighttime reading. Thatโ€™s it.

Pro tip #5: Keep your room cool. The ideal temperature for sleep is around 65ยฐF/18ยฐC.

โ€œTo successfully initiate sleep, your core temperature needs to decrease by 2 to 3 degrees Fahrenheit, or about 1 degree Celsius. For this reason, you will always find it easier to fall asleep in a room that is too cold than too hot, since a room that is too cold is at least dragging your brain and body in the correct (downward) temperature direction for sleepโ€ฆA bedroom temperature of around 65 degrees Fahrenheit (18.3ยฐC) is ideal for the sleep of most people.โ€

Why We Sleep, Matthew Walker

Pro tip #6: Sleep in super darkness. I wear an eye mask. Yea, so what?

This one is super duper.

A sleep mask for the perfect night sleep and a better morning routine checklist

This one is really cozy.

Super cozy sleep mask for a great night sleep and wonderful morning routine checklist

Step 2: An Ex Night Owler: What Time To Wake Up

I obsessed over this to a fault; tried every single wake-up time, down to the minute, from 4:56am – 10:01am. It was an unhealthy relationship I had with wake-up times. Then came a sudden realization: What time do I want to wake up so I can improve my life?

Of course, not everyone has this choice, but most everyone does. If you are working a 9-5, what time could you wake up to invest in improving your well-being? If you start work earlier or have children, could you wake up an hour earlier if the likelihood of you feeling more clarity, focus, and energetic is guaranteed? What could you cut out at night to get to bed earlier and wake up earlier?

You could do everything in the evening and that is perfect. But you probably wouldnโ€™t be reading an article about the best morning routine checklist if you werenโ€™t just a little bit curious.

As a lifelong night owl – a true night owl – the kind that has never, in their entire life, slept before midnight, ever – I will absolutely, 100% never tell you that you need to wake up at some insane hour like 5am to win the morning. Never.

You need to wake up at 5am to win the morning.

Okay, okay. I didnโ€™t mean to break your trust, but this is a hard one for me. I was sincerely the most night-owly person I had ever know. Not trying to win any medals here, but my entire life, from relationships down to my career, was completely constructed around my being a night owl. So much so, that I never fully committed to a teaching career and instead used my skills in the less-respected realm of After-School Teaching because, hey, I just wasnโ€™t a morning person. And school started early. Too early.

I had this voice in my head (still do) that would refuse to let me get up early, and then would be horribly sad when I slept in. Rinse and repeat. It was a real problem.

I would love to tell you that you can wake up anytime you feel like it, and even to respect your biological nature to be that night owl deep inside, but unless you are exactly where you want to be in life, have no major concerns, and distractions are non-existent, then truth is, you need to get up early, especially if you want to make self-care a priority.

There are two reasons for this: 1) You need to find a solid distraction-free window where you can truly focus on yourself, as well as, do your most important work. Your Deep Work 2) You need to have the willpower to sit down and do your distraction-free self-improvement and deep work for at least a couple of hours. Willpower wanes throughout the day. Itโ€™s sad but true. Projects that require deep mental clarity and focus get harder to start as the day goes on and life has already had its way with us.

As much as Iโ€™d hate to admit it, except for a select few, most people arenโ€™t as productive or motivated to work on themselves or big projects at night because it gets increasingly harder to get started on those essential tasks after a full day. When it comes to engaging the mind in deep work and focused self-care at night, most minds arenโ€™t having it.

If you work for someone else, then a lot is decided for you. You just need to decide how much time you need to be the best version of yourself: to optimize your body and mind. Thatโ€™s where a morning routine checklist comes in.

Again, you have to find what works for you, but you must find when you can do your best, undistracted work.

4am seems ridiculous. 5am has worked for me. I also like 6-6:30am, but find that anytime after that, the โ€œmagical timeโ€ when you are crushing life while the world is sleeping starts to dissipate. There is something psychologically empowering about knowing that you have done more than what most will accomplish in their day before they have even woken up. There is something empowering in having a beautiful system in place that fills you up every morning. There is something empowering that happens when you have worked on yourself and completed your most important tasks for the day and you look at the clock and it isnโ€™t even lunchtime yet.

I only ask you this: have you sincerely taken the time to build a morning system that works perfectly for you and that you truly enjoy?

Step 3: Wake Up

Well, this one is horribly obvious: You need to get up. Immediately. Tom Bilyeu says, to get out of bed in less than 10 minutes. If I gave myself 10 minutes to lay in bed, I would never get up at 5am. I know, Iโ€™ve tried. The second my โ€œMorning Demon, Ernieโ€ wakes up in my mind, I know Iโ€™m in trouble and need to get my ass up.

Try Mel Robinsโ€™ 5-Second Rule to get you up. Get up before you can think a thought.

My success of overcoming a lifelong addiction to night owlness is thanks to this little alarm clock right here. This alarm clock changed everything for me. There is something much easier about getting up when the room is lit up.

The sunrise alarm clock that allows me to complete my morning routine checklist
I save lives.

Over time, your body will start to slowly wake up before your alarm. Not always, but many times. It is quite fascinating.

Pro tip #1: Try to wake up without an alarm, if possible. Or, if youโ€™re like me and find it impossible to wake up at 5am without an alarm, use a sunrise alarm to slowly train yourself to wake up, not shocking your nervous system awake. Yea, not a great way to wake up every single morning of your life, jolted awake by some annoying alarm sound.

Pro tip #2: Remember, we sleep in approximately 90-110 minute sleep cycles, so in an ideal world youโ€™d be waking up at the end of a sleep cycle.

Pro tip #3: Never hit the snooze. Hitting the snooze sends your brain back into a sleep cycle so when you wake up 10 minutes later, parts of your brain are still โ€œsleepingโ€, disrupting cognitive function.

Struggling to wake up early as a night owl makes a morning routine checklist difficult
Ernie’s first thought in the morning.

Step 4: Smile Immediately

It is hard to pinpoint the single most profound habit that has changed my life in a sea of simultaneous habit changes, but this one stands out, big time: smiling right when I wake up. It took months for it to stick, but when it did, I felt it. Several studies have shown that simply putting a smile on your face increases feelings of well-being and improved mood. Now imagine training yourself to do that the second you wake up. Yea, pretty rad.

Iโ€™m serious. Smile. Your life will change because of it. As you walk to the bathroom, start thinking of something you are grateful for. Smile and gratitude: these two simple habits can truly change your life (I am getting chills typing this, in case you didnโ€™t already know).

Starting your day with a smile on your face and then thinking of at least one thing you are grateful for goes deep into training your brain to pursue that all day, every day. Smiling matters. Gratitude matters. Start your day that way and watch your world start to change.

Pro tip: If you look at your phone right when you wake up, stop. Immediately.

The best morning routine checklist. waking up early
Wake up and no phone? WTF.

Step 5: Drink Water

Would you go 8 hours during the day without having any water? I hope not. Chances are you are waking up slightly dehydrated. We lose approximately 1 liter of water overnight through respiration.

Drink water when you wake up.

You can look into adding Real Salt or electrolytes to your water after consulting with your doctor. Personally, I drink about 500-750ml of water in the morning. Some days, Iโ€™ll add a dash of salt, especially if Iโ€™ll be sweating a lot. Hydration and electrolytes (not from sugary drinks) are essential for well-being and often times overlooked. Although not supported by scientific literature, some estimates claim that 75% of Americans are chronically dehydrated. And dehydration can lead to a whole host of illnesses.

Pro tip #1: Have your water bottle filled and ready at your first morning routine stop.

Pro tip #2: You can also drink a full glass of water before bed to stay hydrated, although this risks having to get up repeatedly to use the bathroom. Your body will most likely adapt. I havenโ€™t tried this.

Step 6: Brush The Wickets

After drinking your water, itโ€™s time to brush those teeth of yours. Now, Iโ€™m assuming you are into health and well-being since you are here, which means youโ€™ve heard the fluoride debate in toothpaste. I will tell you right now, I have never once in my entire existence met a dentist that told me not to use fluoride toothpaste. So, yea, Iโ€™m sticking with the fluoride toothpaste. I love Hello Fresh.

My favorite toothpaste for my morning routine checklist
Goodbye morning breath.

If you are worried about fluoride, I get it. Me too. In that case, I would look into the fluoride levels in the water you are drinking and possible benefits of a Reverse Osmosis Filtration System.

Brush after drinking your morning water because you donโ€™t rinse your mouth out after brushing: you want the fluoride to sit on your teeth and do its job. Also, brush first thing in the morning, so the fluoride can work while you are carrying on with the next steps of the morning routine. You donโ€™t want to eat or drink for at least 30 minutes after brushing.

Pro tip: Brush with your non-dominant hand because itโ€™s fun to watch something so difficult become so easy.

โ€œStudies have found that brushing your teeth with your non-dominant hand while repeating a thought forces your brain to pay extra close attention to that message. Using your non-dominant hand makes your brain focus, so it zones in on everything thatโ€™s happeningโ€”including what youโ€™re saying while youโ€™re brushing your teeth. This effort makes you accurately remember the words and the feelings they evoke, because you paired it with this new physical habit (brushing your teeth with the wrong hand).โ€

The High 5 Habit, Mel Robbins

Step 7: The Daily Highlight

YouTuber, Ali Abdaal, talks about the Daily Highlight, where he writes down the one thing that he must complete that day and if he complete it, it will have been a successful day. Tim Ferriss has mentioned journaling daily on the question โ€œWhat would make today great?โ€

Adapting those, I just focus on the one thing I have to do that day while Iโ€™m brushing my teeth (I have a post-it on my mirror that reads โ€œDaily Highlightโ€ as a reminder). I focus on how good it will feel to get it done. I do that for about a minute, and for the other minute (you should brush your teeth for two minutes) I focus on my life goals. I do all of this because it starts my day with focused intention.

Step 8: The Seinfeld Splash

โ€œI wanna get up, letโ€™s go, Baby! So the first thing I wantโ€ฆI want Sports Radio on, and I run the faucets and I start splashing my face with water like Mace in The Hustlerโ€ฆthatโ€™s how you face lifeโ€ฆwater, water.โ€

Jerry Seinfeld Episode 68 of Hereโ€™s The Thing with Alec Baldwin

This one is pretty straight forward: after you finish brushing your teeth, splash water on your face and look at yourself in the mirror. It wakes you up. And it’s empowering.

happy with a morning routine checklist to start every single morning
How I imagine Seinfeld feels after splashing water on his face.

Step 9: Affirmations

Do affirmations work? Who knows. They didnโ€™t do much when I was down in the dumps, only action changed that, but it is still a fiery way to start the day, they train me for positive self-talk, and I enjoy them.

I have no shame sharing my morning routine checklist, so here are the affirmations I read with water dripping down my face (Yes, I am aware that this sounds like a Gladiator getting ready to enter a Colosseum full of lions, and in a way, it is. And I like it):

  1. Smile and Gratitude all day.
  2. I am in perfect health. The Universe of Wealth is circulating in my life. Wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance. All my need, goals, and desires are met instantaneously. I am showing up and serving others with love, gratitude, laughter, kindness, energy, and knowledge. I am outstanding!
  3. Feel great all day. Be upbeat. Bring the energy.
  4. There is somebody out there that can benefit from what I know, do, and share.
  5. โ€œMy choices are made in a moment, but their consequences transcend a lifetime.โ€ M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane
  6. What can I do today to (fill in your goal) by (fill in the date)? [Re: The Daily Highlight]
  7. Donโ€™t Think. Do.
  8. Just Do. Always Do.
  9. Iโ€™ve got this! (I do this with my “power move”).
  10. High 5 myself in the mirror and say, โ€œI love you, Scott. Letโ€™s go!โ€ as per Mel Robbinsโ€™ The High 5 Habit.

โ€œDiscovered by Dr. Lawrence Katz, a neurobiologist and researcher at Duke University, neurobic interventions are one of the easiest, most powerful ways to create new pathways and connections in your brain. In a neurobic exercise, a routine activity (letโ€™s say, looking at yourself in the mirror) is paired with two things: (1) something unexpected that involves your senses (like high fiving that mirror) and (2) an emotion youโ€™d like to feel (like celebration). Neurobic exercises make your brain snap into attention. The act creates a kind of โ€œbrain fertilizerโ€ that makes your brain learn new habits faster. This heightened state creates new nerve connections in your brain that connect the actionโ€”which was once something routine (high fiving other people), but when done in an unexpected way (high fiving yourself), puts your brain on alertโ€”with the emotion youโ€™d like to feel.โ€

The High 5 Habit, Mel Robbins

Pro tip: Maybe having clear intentions and repeating affirmations that are tied to powerful emotions does reprogram your subconscious. Do I know this for sure? Absolutely not. But I know how I feel, and that’s good enough for me.

โ€œA large body of literature; however, demonstrates that a class of interventions called self-affirmations have benefits across threatening situations; affirmations can decrease stress, increase well being, improve academic performance and make people more open to behavior change.โ€

– Pubmed

Step 10: Make Your Bed

โ€œIf you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.โ€ Make Your Bed, Naval Admiral William McRaven

Make Your Bed, Naval Admiral William McRaven

Make your bed. Organize where you sleep, your workspace, and your life. Youโ€™ll feel better. Does it give you a small, easy win that perpetuates other, bigger wins? Maybe. I just do it because I feel better when things are tidy and I am (mostly) organized.

Step 11: Exercise

Exercise is the single most effective thing you can do to change your life and feel better. It is everything. It is, what I call, a Waterfall Habit: once you start to exercise regularly, other really good habits starts to flow into your life, and more easily. You become more conscious of eating healthy and sleeping better. Your mood changes – you feel good. Your energy levels increase. You are less stressed and therefore kinder. The waterfall spills over.

Exercise every single day.

Yes, every day. Why? You need to make daily, deliberate movement a habit and exercising 3-4 times a week leaves too much room for failure and you are constantly running into friction of having to re-start. If you still arenโ€™t convinced, let me ask you, how has not working out daily worked out for you so far? Probably not good. Inconsistent at best. Starting, stopping, starting, stopping. Always wishing you would exercise more. Well, here is your answer: do it every day.

You donโ€™t have to run a marathon each day, but you need to schedule deliberate movement so it becomes a lifelong habit.

Here are some of the benefits: Numerous studies have shown that maintaining a minimum quantity and quality of exercise decreases the risk of death, prevents the development of certain cancers, lowers the risk of osteoporosis and increases longevity, decreases symptoms of depression, reduces inflammation, increases BDNF and improves learning and memory.

For me, exercise must come first thing in the morning, otherwise, it wonโ€™t get done. Figure out when exercise has to happen for you.

Here is my weekly exercise schedule:

  • 1 day run (80% of maximum effort): 4-5 miles (30-40 minutes)
  • 1 day jog (60-70% of maximum effort) 5-6 miles (45-60 minutes)
  • 2-3 days lifting-resistance training (45-60 minutes)
  • 2-3 days of yoga and stretching (40-60 minutes)
  • Evening walks of 1-3 miles with an audiobook when I have time (3-4 times a week)
  • *On running/jogging days, I will add in all-out sprints for a few rounds at the end of the run/jog, or I will do the sprints on one of the days I do yoga and stretching, since the sprints are quick.

Thatโ€™s it.

Donโ€™t complicate this. Personally, I hate the gym so I lift at home with limited gear. Find what you like, then do it.

Pro tip: If you donโ€™t exercise regularly, then no morning routine will help you. Exercise improves mood, increases energy, focus, clarity, helps improve sleep qualityโ€ฆif you take away anything from this article, you must start an exercise habit immediately.

Step 12: Read

Books are the cheat-code to life. If you donโ€™t read, Iโ€™m not sure how you found me or this article. You need to read. And a lot.

If you donโ€™t have a natural inclination to read more, or you canโ€™t find the time, then you must schedule time to read every day. I always listen to an audiobook while exercising. (If you donโ€™t like coupling reading with exercising then you can move reading to after journaling.)

There are arguments to be made for reading as much as possible versus just reading and devouring a few books. I support both as long as you are reading and implementing what you are learning.

If you are just starting out reading, you should read as much as possible to 1) Find what you like to read, and 2) To fill your brain with a surplus of knowledge-dots, from some of the greatest minds, that you will be able to connect later as you continue to implement, grow, and improve.

Again, find what works for you. But I will say this, every single person that has achieved a decent level of success in life have all said that they read a lot and that it has been a cornerstone of their success.

Pro tip #1: Combine audiobooks with activities like walking, exercise, cooking, cleaning, showering. You will be amazed at how many books you can read if you fill your downtime with reading and not, letโ€™s say, mindless scrolling.

Pro tip #2: Read non-fiction in the morning. Read fiction at night.

Prot tip: Stop listening to podcasts. They are an overview of books and ideas. Read the books!

Pro tip #3: Check out my growing list of book summaries for some insights.

Step 13: Sunlight

The benefits of such sun exposure go beyond production of vitamin D and include other physiological responses to sunlight, including release of nitric oxide, production of beta-endorphin, and regulation of circadian rhythmsโ€”all important components of lifelong health and well-being.

– NCBI

I live for sunlight. For me, it’s where life happens. But also it has incredible benefits that go well beyond Vitamin D.

Here are a few more of the benefits:

  • Helps morning cortisol release making you feel more awake.
  • Regulates the release of adenosine and melatonin, which in turn helps regulate your circadian rhythm.
  • Helps increase focus throughout the day.
  • Boosts immune function.
  • Releases serotonin which improves mood.

When you get sunlight depends on when you wake up. If you are up at 5am, get sunlight for 15-20 minutes after you complete your morning routine or a morning break. If you wake up later, get outside first thing and do your exercise with an audiobook outside in the early-morning sunlight.

Pro tip #1: Get outside in the morning and protect yourself later in the day.

Pro tip #2: Aim for about 15 minutes of morning sunlight on clear days and 30 minutes on cloudy days.

Pro tip #3: Couple this with exercise, meditation, grounding, breathwork.

Pro tip #4: According to the Environmental Protection Agency, Americans spend 90% or more of their lives indoors. Think that affects your health and mood? I do.

Getting sunlight each day helps your morning routine checklist go a little smoother
Treat sunlight like the life source that it is. Get some.

Step 14: Grounding

โ€œAll studies discussed revealed significant physiological or clinical outcomes as a result of groundingโ€ฆThis body of research has demonstrated the potential of grounding to be a simple, natural, and accessible clinical strategy against the global epidemic of noncommunicable, degenerative, inflammatory-related diseases.

(Altern Ther Health Med. 2017;23(5):8-16)โ€

I donโ€™t have much to say here other than putting my feet on the grass in the morning feels really fucking nice. And there might be some benefits, too.

Step 15: Priming

This came from that time when I crossed paths with the Tony Robbins environment. (Does that happen to everyone who first enters self-improvement?) It wasnโ€™t really for me, but I still walked away with a few activities that I found useful.

Priming was one of those things. I downloaded a Priming audio onto my phone and listened to it each morning. Cutting out the breathing portion and opting for Wim Hof breathing was ideal. I no longer do Priming but still implement the concepts of gratitude, love and visualization into areas of my life.

About Visualization: It has its place. If you are curious to explore more, look into Joe Dispenzaโ€™s books or the WOOP Method. Personally, I donโ€™t believe you can attract things into your life so much as you can take action and create opportunities for yourself that werenโ€™t perceptible until you took the action. Yet, visualization can be a great tool for getting very clear on what it is that you want to achieve, how you will get there, the obstacles you will face, how you will overcome them, and even to get excited about the process of reaching your goal. Iโ€™m all about science-backed activities, and visualization isn’t fully convincing. Although, taking action is.

Pro tip: Here is the audio I used.

Step 16: Meditation

Meditation altered the course of my life forever. Period.

I honestly have no idea how I lived my life before November 9, 2020. No idea.

The ability to be consciously aware still blows my mind. It was as though another โ€œMeโ€ was born; another person who could actually hear the thoughts and see the actions of the other โ€œMeโ€.

Gets me every time.

Hereโ€™s a great place to start if you are new and still trying to make it a habit:

  • Headspace will always have a soft spot for me. Andy was my first. He did alter the trajectory of my life.
  • Calm is full of a bit more variety, although the simple daily meditations felt more like instruction than sitting and focusing on my breath. Their selection of Sleep Stories and Soundscapes are wonderful, though.
  • Waking Up is the deep, philosophical side of meditation. I liked it.

After you get comfortable a few months in, itโ€™s time to remove the training wheels and go off on your own. The guided apps are great to start, but donโ€™t rely on them. (And beware of the potential distractions inherent in the use of the app and phone itself.)

Here are some advanced options:

  • Transcendental Meditation: This is what I do – 20 minutes twice a day (although, I donโ€™t like that you have to pay for entry). Some evenings, instead of round two of TM, I will replace it with the โ€œTuning Into New Potentialsโ€ meditation from Joe Dispenzaโ€™s Becoming Supernatural (Yes, I visualize myself being super-duper awesome sometimes.)
  • 1-Hour Meditation: Well, this one takes some practice
  • Evening Meditation
  • Walking Meditation
  • Quantum Field Meditations: Re: Joe Dispenza
  • Eckhart Tolle Meditations from The Power of Now
  • Zen Meditation

The list is long, and as much as I want this article to provide you exactly what to do, this one you will have to explore on your own. Enjoy the process of finding what meditation/mindfulness technique works for you – itโ€™s a journey in and of itself.

Pro tip: Meditating immediately after exercise helps us train our brain to move from Beta Brainwaves to more relaxed Theta Brainwaves. This training simulates the reality and chaos of life and trains us to move from stressful feelings to feelings of awareness and calm with ease.

meditation is an essential part of the morning routine checklist
Meditate. Change your life.

Step 17: Thinktation

This was adapted from Tom Bilyeu and a section from the book Think and Grow Rich that often gets overlooked but has stuck with me ever since I read it:

โ€œIn his laboratory, he had what he called his “personal communication room.” It was practically sound proof, and so arranged that all light could be shut out. It was equipped with a small table, on which he kept a pad of writing paper. In front of the table, on the wall, was an electric pushbutton, which controlled the lights. When Dr. Gates desired to draw upon the forces available to him through his Creative Imagination, he would go into this room, seat himself at the table, shut off the lights, and CONCENTRATE upon the KNOWN factors of the invention on which he was working, remaining in that position until ideas began to “flash” into his mind in connection with the UNKNOWN factors of the invention.โ€

Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill.

Thinktation is a method that utilizes the relaxed state of calmness and clarity that results from deep meditation, allowing you to reap the benefits of creativity and problem-solving. (This is why it immediately follows your meditation practice.)

This study suggest that there is a โ€œcreative sweet spotโ€ just before we fall into onset sleep. There is something magical that happens during moments of complete stillness and boredom.

It is rumored that Einstein took frequent naps while sitting in a chair holding a steel ball in either hand. As he would drift off to sleep he would enter this creative sweet spot just before sleep and the steel balls would clank to the floor shocking him awake. He would furiously write down all of the thoughts and solutions he had just accessed.

Pro tip #1: Make sure to have a problem in mind that you want to Thinktate on before you sit down to meditate.

Pro tip #2: Have a pen and paper nearby (or a way to take notes).

Step 18: Wim Hof Breathing

Actually, any breathwork fits here nicely. But I prefer Wim Hof breathing, since the cold shower is to follow.

Does it work? Breathwork has been used for thousands of years and has come into fashion more recently. Yogic breathing has been shown to have both physiological and psychological benefits. It also helped to reduced fatigue, anxiety, and other emotional responses in those with cancer and cardiovascular disease.

How about Wim Hof breathing? This study showed that participants that were trained in the Wim Hof method voluntarily activated their Autonomic Nervous System and their innate immune response. This 2020 study found โ€œtrained subjects practicing the learned breathing exercises exhibited higher levels of lactate and pyruvate compared with a control group who did not practice any exercise, and concentrations of these metabolites correlated with the profoundly enhanced levels of the anti-inflammatory cytokine IL-10.โ€

Put another way, breathwork had anti-inflammatory effects, and that’s a real good thing.

Wim Hof and cold exposure. Can’t beat it.

Step 19: Cold Shower

Itโ€™s funny, there is a mountain of growing literature and discourse regarding the health benefits of cold exposure. I donโ€™t care about any of that. The reason I take a cold shower every morning is simply because it is the single most difficult thing I do each day. Nothing even comes close. And if I can conquer my screaming mind each morning, then everything else becomes that much easier.

Hereโ€™s a great article if you want to check out the science-backed benefits of cold showers. (Except the author actually enjoys the ice showers, which is bonkers.)

In her book, Dopamine Nation, Anna Lembke talks about the benefits of cold exposure on our, well, dopamine.

Pro tip: Donโ€™t go jumping in screaming and shouting. Ease into it, calmly, focusing on your breathing. Accept it. Like life, itโ€™s all training.

Step 20: Journaling (Read If You Didnโ€™t Earlier)

If you didnโ€™t listen to an audiobook while exercising, here would be a good time to sit down and read. Before or after journaling works great.

I wrote a post about journaling and how to get started here.

As with meditation, you really have to play around with what journaling method works for you. Youโ€™ll probably want to avoid typing though, as there is something more profound that happens with pen-to-paper.

Here are some journaling methods:

Needless to say, there are a lot of options out there. Just keep it simple. Do whatever style of journaling that keeps you coming back consistently enough to reap the benefits.

Personally, I have found Morning Pages or Stream of Consciousness journaling beneficial for my overthinking brain. It works wonders for problem solving. Many times the answer is just sitting there, waiting to be discovered.

The Bullet Journal is something new Iโ€™m trying on for size, and it seems that once you get the hang of the basics, it might actually live up to its hype. It is open enough to let you play, explore, plan, organize and reflect all in one place. So weโ€™ll see.

Pro tip: Journaling in the morning helps you get all those ideas and thoughts you have out of you head and onto paper. It helps you see what is actually running through you mind all day. And it helps you plan.

Step 21: Deep Work

Simply, get to work.

I once caught a clip of Alex Hormozi talking about the most effective morning routine stating, โ€œThe best morning routine is the one that closes the gap between waking up and getting to work.โ€ And that hit me hard. Itโ€™s actually what woke me up from my morning-routine checklist addled obsession.

Eat That Frog says to do the hardest thing first – the most important thing – the thing that moves you closer to where, and who, you want to be.

Cal Newport, in his book Deep Work, outlines various approaches to achieving deep work, but the message is clear: designing a work life around flow that is produced when engaged in deep work is the key to life satisfaction and meaning.

Deep work, even for the best-of-the-best, maxes out at around 4 hours. Find those 4 hours.

As a night owl, I would say do your deep work whenever you are you most productive, probably in the evening.

As an ex night owl, well, you probably already know what I would say.

As a human that understands life, do deep work whenever is best for you. But do deep work. Set deadlines, remove all distractions, and focus. Youโ€™ll be happy you did.

Pro tip #1: Use headphones that block out the world and some classical music guiding you gently toward all of your dreams.

Pro tip #2: Read Deep Work and The ONE Thing together.

Step 22: Fasting

If you still believe in science (which you should), then a healthy breakfast is an extremely important meal of the day, if not the most important. โ€œScientific studies suggest that making a healthy breakfast is related to a greater intake of nutrients in the total of the day, better coverage of the nutritional recommendations and better quality of the whole diet. It is also associated with better body weight control and healthy cardiometabolic risk indicators, both in children and adults. Breakfast has also been related to improvements in attention and cognitive function in all age groups, both in acute, chronic and intervention studies.โ€

With that said, I fast and eat my first meal around lunchtime. (This is absolutely not medical or nutritional advice.) I simply do this because it works for me. I feel more focused and productive with just me and my coffee.

Pro tip: If you make any changes to your diet, talk with your doctor to design a program that works best for you and your individual needs.

a morning routine checklist can save your life, so have a morning routine you love
Morning routines change lives.

Step 23: Do Whatever Works For You!

Well, this article turned into a 7,000-word behemoth. Oops.

Itโ€™s ironic because all I really wanted to say is that having a simple morning routine that you enjoy waking up to and doing each day can change your life.

Andโ€ฆmy life motto is โ€œSimplifyโ€. (So that would probably mean avoiding 7,000-word posts in the future. To be honest, itโ€™s a newly adopted motto, anyways, and Iโ€™m clearly still adapting.)

All this was to say that I obsessed over having the perfect morning routine for years. I relentlessly searched for new elements I could add or try out and Iโ€™m glad I get to share my result with you. I hope it helps you like it helped me. I really do.

Although this article is rather long, the routine itself is quite simple and takes about 2-2.5 hours. Ever since that Hormozi comment, my morning routine has been condensed to around 1.5 hours and that includes my daily exercise, which will never leave its morning slot.

Ultimately, it comes down to whatever works for you. Whatever you will stick to. Whatever fits your life and where you are heading. But maybe knowing why you should incorporate a morning routine into your life will help you get where you want to go. Hopefully this morning routine will help get you there.

I believe it will.

My Morning Routine Checklist

9 – 10pm: Screens off, daily reflection, next-day tasks and time-blocking, warm shower, meditate, read, sleep (sleep time varies based on need).

5am: Wake up. Smile and gratitude.

5 – 5:05am: Drink water, brush teeth, daily highlight/life goals, splash water on face, affirmations.

5:05 – 5:10am: Make bed.

5:10 – 6am: Exercise with audiobook.

6 – 6:25am: Meditation (Thinktation, if needed. I donโ€™t do Priming any more, and Wim Hof is only when I feel like it = 1-2 times a week, or a 1-minute version right before theโ€ฆ)

6:25 – 6:30am: Cold shower.

6:30 – 6:35am: Coffee (with MCT oil) or Tea (Matcha, Yerba Mate).

6:35 – 6:50am: Morning Pages/journal check-in/daily plan/time-blocking (or straight to deep work).

6:50 – 9am: Deep work, most important thing, the toughest thing.

9 – 9:15am: Break, sunlight, grounding (if possible).

9:15 – 11:15am: Deep work.

11:15am: Break fast or do easier tasks until 12-1pm depending on feel.

*Times might change – waking up at 6am in the summer: it will allow for exercise, meditation, thinktation, sunlight, grounding and breathwork all to be done together outside. Some sections might change, but the core remains the same.

Pro tip: Start slow and add elements over time. The key is to always do the things that you say you are going to do. You must build trust with yourself and to do that, you have to keep the promises that you make to yourself.


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  1. Loved this! Your work is part of “my reading” ๐Ÿฅฐ
    I think you should have a “personal” intensive retreat…lol… someone pays you to come live with you ….lol! But they must be silent . oh..Be ” Scott “s Shadow” ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜… Retreat!

    1. LOL…this might be the best idea I’ve ever heard! Having a type of “Routine Retreat” really isn’t a bad idea. It would give people a hands-on approach to figuring what works for them and how to create habits. Now you’ve got my wheels turning LOL! I’m really happy you enjoy my articles. I took a chance on writing and glad I did!

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